Happy New Year!

As the year and also the decade comes to an end ,it was really a wonderful decade, many ups and downs ,many people came ,many people left but life went by, some drastic changes happened , some things remained same all this while and hope they remain same in future too..

There were few realization I had in this decade and I must confess because of these few realizations my life has changed very much and for the good  .

I will list the realizations later ,first I want to welcome this new year and new decade with open heart and all the love, this decade is going to shape my life and I hope it does shape it in a better way and to be precise  ,I want to shape it and not want to get shaped.

I always believe that I am meant for big things and that’s why my biggest fear in life is that I don’t want to settle for less.

Now I will list the realizations, though I realized many things but I will list few important things here only:

1.)    It’s been 5 years now since I am away from home now and in past 6 months stayed at home for just 4 days and in these 5 years and those 4 days , one thing which I realized is that family matters the most and its only thing in “WORLD” that loves you unconditionally and I am blessed that I have got such a wonderful family.

2.)    Second is that I realized that it’s good to get broke sometimes  ,  to cry but it’s not good to stay that way all the time, just get up, slog your backs off and achieve things ,this is how it is ,I got broke many a time ,cried many a times but these helped me in doing more than I wanted to and also there’s emptiness so you can feed yourself with what you need and restart.

3.)    Third is that people are going to judge you, they  will always want to listen from you what they want to, so there’s no point doing things to please people or not attempting something in fear of being judged, and always being consistent with your views ,just don’t modify just because people don’t like it ,that ain’t  gonna work

4.)    I am in my 20's , working to get a good future so biggest thing which I learnt is to give it all I can and put my everything to get what I want. Take every exam as if it’s a question of life and death and prepare likewise but at the same time take the result as if it doesn’t matter at all ,because you know you have given it all what you were able to.

5.)    Another thing is that start doing what you love and not what you do out of any compulsion ,learn to say no because that’s the most important thing in life and that’s what keeping you away from the goal.

6.)    Chose your role models and chose them wisely because they are the ones who are going to shape you to a large extent and also listen to your parents because they are the only people who will give you an advice without expecting anything in return.

7.)    Embrace good friends and love them without expecting anything, help people whenever and wherever you can because that help will come to you in some way or the other and I must say I have been blessed with some amazing friends in life who stood by me in all the phases.

8.)    And this is very imp and I won’t explain it , there  is nothing called faith in the game of ambition.

9.)    Bipartisanship is a virtue these days and if you have this consider yourself luckiest ,I have been trying to develop this virtue lately and I hope that will achieve it soon because partisan stands just makes your knowledge look bleak

10.) And lastly believe in god, because as harivansh rai bachchan used to say if it happens according to your wish, well and good, but if doesn’t ,all the more good because then it is happening according to the wishes of almighty who won’t ever  think bad for you.

These were the few thing I learnt out of many and they really shaped in some sense, now as the new year is about to arrive ,I wish we all attain our goals, we all remain healthy, our country remain peaceful, united and usher on the path of development.

So lastly would like to quote Lee Tzu pheng here:

Life is too short, but feels pretty long. There’s too much to do, so much going wrong and most of the time you struggle to be strong. Before it’s too late and it’s time to go, sip your coffee nice and slow!

With this I wish you all A very happy new year !!

 Cheers!

AKSHAT!